Are you tuned in to your hunger? Do you know how to tell if you are hungry?
Do you sometimes confuse wanting to eat with needing to eat? Learning to tell the difference is an essential skill for breaking your eat-repent-repeat cycle.
Become your own expert by learning to understand and trust your body’s signals to tell if you are hungry.
Check Your Fuel Gauge Before You Fill Up
To break your eat-repent-repeat cycle, develop the habit of asking yourself, “Am I hungry?” before you eat.
Think of it this way: When you see a gas station, do you automatically pull in and fill up?
Of course not! You check your fuel gauge first.
You were born with the innate ability to know when and how much to eat. Have you forgotten how to use this information?
Maybe you never feel hungry because you eat regularly in response to other emotional and external cues. Maybe you ignore hunger until you’re starving then eat anything you can get your hands on. Perhaps dieting has caused you to dread feeling hungry or taught you to eat by the clock to prevent it.
Why Using Hunger Helps
Using hunger and fullness to guide your eating helps because:
- Food tastes better when you’re hungry. Hunger really is the best seasoning.
- You’ll feel more satisfied because food is great for satisfying hunger but not as good for satisfying your other needs.
- You’ll notice you’re hungry before you get too hungry, decreasing the likelihood you’ll overeat.
- You might eat less food when you’re eating to satisfy physical hunger than when you eat to satisfy other needs. Think about it. If you aren’t hungry when you start eating, how do you know when to stop? When the food is gone of course!
- You’re more likely to eat a balance of foods when you are hungry. If you’re eating because you’re stressed or bored, what kinds of foods do you crave?
- Most important, when you recognize you want to eat because of other needs, you’ll have the opportunity to address your true needs more effectively than with food.
Symptoms to Tell If You Are Hungry
So how do you know whether you’re hungry?
- Pause and take a few deep breaths.
- Do a brief body-mind-heart scan. (Our Mindful Eating app can help!)
- Look for physical symptoms of hunger.
Here are the most common symptoms of hunger:
- Hunger pangs
- Growling or grumbling
- Empty or hollow feeling
- Slight queasy feeling or nausea
- Weakness or loss of energy
- Trouble concentrating
- Difficulty making decisions
- Slight headache
- Irritability or crankiness (“hangry”)
Notice that hunger is physical. Hunger is not a thought, a craving, or a rationalization.
Also be aware that some symptoms of hunger, like fatigue, may be coming from something else.
Don’t Use Hunger Like Another Diet!
You’re not asking the question, “Am I hungry?” to decide whether you’re allowed to eat. You’re asking “Am I hungry?” to figure out why you want to.
There is nothing wrong with sometimes eating when you’re not hungry. Don’t beat yourself or feel guilty!
Simply practice checking your fuel gauge before you fill up. You may find yourself feeling more satisfied and meeting your needs more effectively.
This article is based on chapter two of Eat What You Love, Love What You Eat. Get chapter one free here.
This article was previously published and has been updated.
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