< Previous Post | Next Post >

Dining with Myself…Uh oh!

By Michelle May, M.D.

(Now I dare you to try to get Billy Idol’s song Dancing with Myself out of your head!)

For twenty years, I had a love-hate relationship with food. Now, I’m a foodie: I eat what I love and I love what I eat.

I’m also a people person-so not surprisingly, one of my favorite activities is eating with my friends and family. Ironically, as a professional speaker traveling around the country, I often eat dinner by myself.

woman eating alone at restaurantWhen you think about eating by yourself, what comes to mind?

  •     Great! A chance to experience a wonderful meal!
  •     Eating by myself is borrrr-ring!
  •     Everyone must think I’m pathetic and don’t have any friends to eat with.
  •     Good! Now I can eat whatever I want and as much as I want!
  •     Uh, oh…I can’t trust myself alone with food!

Whether eating by yourself conjures up boredom, embarrassment, anticipation, or fear, it gives you a little hint about the state of your relationship with food.

Your Relationship with Food

You may have wondered about that strange phrase: a relationship with an inanimate object? Food?

Just like a relationship with a partner, your thoughts and feelings about food reveal the state of your relationship. Would you say that your relationship with food reflects love, care, curiosity, anticipation, joy, and contentment? Or is it boring, predictable, taken for granted – or even abusive?

Since this is an important lifelong relationship, perhaps it’s time to reignite that spark by having a love affair with your food. I don’t mean the secretive, cheating kind of affair. I mean rediscovering the reason you fell in love in the first place.

Next post – How To have an Affair with Your Food!


About the author

Michelle May, M.D. is a recovered yo-yo dieter and the founder of the Am I Hungry?® Mindful Eating Programs and Training. She is the award-winning author of Eat What You Love, Love What You Eat: A Mindful Eating Program to Break Your Eat-Repent-Repeat Cycle , winner of seven publishing awards. She is also the author of Eat What You Love, Love What You Eat with Diabetes, Eat What You Love, Love What You Eat for Binge Eating, and Am I Hungry? Mindful Eating for Bariatric Surgery. Michelle shares her compelling message and constructive keynotes with audiences around the country, offers workplace wellness programs, and has trained and licensed hundreds of health professionals to facilitate Am I Hungry?® Mindful Eating Programs worldwide. She has been featured on Dr. Oz, the Discovery Health Channel, and Oprah Radio, and quoted in Diabetic Living, Fitness, Health, Huffington Post, Parents, Self, USA Weekend, US News & World Report, WebMD and many others. Her personal success story was published in Chicken Soup for the Dieter's Soul. Michelle cherishes her relationships with her husband, Owen and grown children, Tyler and Elyse. She regularly enjoys practicing yoga and hiking near her home in Phoenix, Arizona. She and Owen, a professional chef, share a passion for gourmet and healthful cooking, wine tasting, photography, and traveling.

Leave a reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

< Previous Post | Next Post >